I am frequently surprised to hear some people say that they don’t really know what they would like to do or what they really think about something, they even don’t know what their dreams and desires are!
Actually, they have a problem with their awareness of their real identity.
Sometimes, it is difficult to say what is on your mind or show who you really are because you are different, because you’re afraid of not being “cool”, because society taught us to follow what is trendy. You get worried about being judged and not accepted so you stick to what you “should” do or think. This is the safest way.
How do you react when your friends or partner ask you where you want to go for dinner? Or when they ask you for your feedback about songs or clothes or what is happening on the news etc.? What do you answer when people ask you about your dreams?
You might say what you think in some situations of course, but do you feel you are always true to yourself?
This is what can be blocking you from getting what you desire and be the woman you yearn to be. Before wishing for something to magically change in your life, try to get in touch with yourself and meet the real YOU. She is amazing… not because she is perfect but because of the special things about her.
Take a notebook and start writing about your taste, your philosophy in life, your identity, your dreams and goals. It is such an enriching experience to discover what you have been locking inside and what truly defines you.
You can also create a Dream Board where you will add the pictures of whatever you like or desire. It can be a real board that you hang in front of you or you can use Pinterest. This is a great tool to stay positive, motivated and feel alive. Dreaming is a gift from God! Enjoy it!!
Once you do that, you will have a very clear idea about what should be your plans and what you need to transform in your life in order to make your dreams come true. It is only once you are totally proud of the woman you are and when you are genuinely and authentically YOU, that you will make sure that the path you chose is exactly the one that was meant for you.
Your path towards happiness…
By Michèle Jabre